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First broadcast at 21:00 25 Jun 2012
The housemates tuck into some not-so-tasy treats and Deana considers leaving the House.
The housemates discover who will face the public vote this week.
Ashleigh celebrates her 21st birthday in the Big Brother House.
Arron must perform three acts of kindness for his fellow housemates.
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7 months ago
If I publish my articles to my school paper are they copyrighted or do I have any ownership over them?
9 months ago
love love ashleigh hate dina
Watching all the previous episodes, and not being funny, but i think it's so funny and exciting! there having fun, and your getting all the big characters. I think everyone is amazing and has there own character! get over it, it's only a game show:)
Soo, this was from a while back but, everyone saying ashleigh was being horrible to deana, not true. She said to some, lets not blame it all on deana she tried, even if yoyu dont like her, she wasn't a part in that really, she said deana tried, and that its not all her fault, so you shouldn't really blame ash for that.
10 months ago
he is an absolute disgrace. his mother should be ashamed, i would be if that was my son. and any real man would have put him straight there and then on being abusive towards women.
11 months ago
WOW how many comments on strangers eating food ?
OMG, just watched this episode. That is so harsh, those guys are bullies. Can't stand people like that. Arron and Conor just picking on someone who can't defend herself, picking on a women, thats not very manly is it? Terrible.
Big brother was meant to be a experiment to see how people react in an enclosed environment. If people want conner to be removed from the show because he made a comment in anger which he clearly regretted then use your vote when the time comes if you think otherwise you really should not be watching the show. Who suffered more shilpa shette in the house or jade goody out of it? If these people get out of hand they will be held to account by the public.
Why is every one demanding BB do what they say because they don't like what they saw? Shesh, BB is not some retailers where you can frickin moan...they don't choose what the house mates says and do (most of the time). Deana made the choice to go in to the house. If she doesn't like it, there are many more people out there who would love to be in her position.
Disgusted with the behaviour in this house. Absolutely disgusting that these bullies are a). getting away with bullying people and b). that they're even in the house at all. Completely shocked. Caroline, Ashley, Connor, Luke S, Aaron, Sara are all completely shocking.
This show is just painful and annoying to watch,shame on you big brother!!! .How can you let such bullies get away with their actions i really don't understand
This year Arron, Conor, Luke S, Caroline, Ashleigh and almost everyone else are showing themselves to be in almost every aspect not nice people. ALL will find not b quite so arrogant or smug when they leave as the boos will be deafening, EVEN if they make it to the final week.
absolutely appalled. i hope their friends and family are ashamed of these bullies.!!! disgusting behaviour
I have just watched the episode when Connor abused Deanna on catch up tv. I am disgusted at the lack of action by the show. I would have thought you had learned your lesson due to a the fiasco and bullying incident a few years back. This person should be removed from the show immediately to send a message to all those young people out there that bullying is not acceptable.
I am still in shock at what I witnessed tonight and the ineffectual way that big brother dealt with it. Shame on you, throw him out of the house. I feel so sorry for Deanna, and please everyone vote to keep her in. She has done nothing to deserve the bullying she is having to deal with. Imagine if it was you trapped in that house and the bully group ganging up on you.
Horrible, truly horrible and no example has been set for this unpleasant bunch. It is a pack mentality. Has anyone here read Catcher on the Rye?
Big Brother this time take action quickly and nip this in the bud. Remove him from the house. He would not get away with that abuse on the outside. Disgusting
So arron is a model ? what does he model shoes ?!! Nice comment from sugar (Sandra Bullock look alike !!!!)
GET CONNOR OUT!
Is it just me that knows Spam is NOT beef?! :S..
WHY HAS MY COMMENT BEEN REMOVED IS IT BY ANY CHANCE BECAUSE I REPORTED BB TO OFCOM ????
God Caroline use to be my fav but now shes a bitch, aaron also use to be my fav but urg I hate him and he is bullying deana!!!! Connor has nothing good what so ever about him hes a bully and thats it. Luke S thinks hes all that but hes just another bully. The girls need to be a better friend to lauren shes another whos been a bully, I think big brother should speak to all the house mates besides Lauren, Lydia, Deena, Luke A, Adam, shivonne, Becky and scott about their bullying its ridiculous they are getting away with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why was my comment removed? I did not use any offensive language, nor did I threaten anyone.
I watched the programme on Monday night and I can say that I was horrified by what I heard. Reminding of the rules is irrelevant if they are not enforced.
The question is, does Deana know exactly what was said? I don’t think she does.
Did Connor give an apology to Deana, or was it just in the diary room for the benefit of the public?
This needs to be dealt with, it hasn’t gone away.
I watched the programme on Monday night, and I can say that I was horrified by what I heard. Reminding him of the rules of the house is irrelevant if the rules are not inforced. Big brother and channel 5 are ultimately responsible for what is shown, and indeed what takes place in that house.
Yes, maybe there are some people who joke like this on a daily basis, but there are also people who are dealing with being the victims of this behaviour on a daily basis too.
The question is does Deana know exactly what was said? I don't think she does.
Did Connor actually give an apology to Deana, or was it just for the public in the diary room?
Big Brother needs to deal with this properly. It hasn't gone away.
I didn't bother to tune in last night and doubt I will watch the rest of the series. Prior to the who Connor issue, I was struggling with watching as some of the characters were too much. Where did they find these people? It's sad that they don't realise this is not the way to gain quick success in life. You work hard, respect yourself, considerate of others and happiness really comes within. BB seems to have come up with a cunning plan to intentionally put a house full of misfits together for their own gain and don't care about the impact it has on the public or the individuals involved in the house. It's a cruel game and far from entertainment. Connor will come out of the house with a psychotic fan base, boys like him, violence and abuse against women will become acceptable behaviour and the others will do a bunch of airhead interviews and justify his behaviour to "he was having a bad day and didn't physically follow through with his threats". Connor was at fault but BB is ultimately responsible for not making him accountable. I hope Deana has a good solicitor because she needs to also step up if she leaves this week and follow through with some legal action for the remarks made about her by him. People have gone to prison just for making threats on twitter or Facebook and BB is supposed to be social entertainment, therefore the same law should apply to all housemates inside. I understand people get angry and we all say things that we later regret but there has to be boundaries in place when you are on TV period. As for individuals on here saying "it's all harmless fun", you're deluded and will put it down to lack of empathy , personal life experience with a twist of common sense.
this episode is just the worst thing i've ever had to sit through from big brother. you think maybe deana can be a bit sly at times but she dosent deserve to be talked about like that. i think arron has found a way to get in the 'cool' gang and is bullying deana for caroline and conners amusement. gosh.
What an awful episode.
1. Very concerning that two or three charmless housemates of limited intelligence (Connor, Arron, Caroline) could exert such peer pressure so that they can say disproportionately nasty and divisive things and get away with it.
2. I agree that Deana is draining/irritating to watch as she appears to be always miserable poor love but the behaviour towards her tonight was uncalled for.
3. Big brother should have made it clear either way that the food task was not passed or 'failed' as a 'group' as it didn't seem that a different prize would have been given had Deana eaten her dish.
4. The big brother house has entered embarrassing territory by taking so little action - they couldn't even reason successfully with Arron.
I really can't bear to watch this anymore - get rid of Connor Arron and Caroline and their minions - they're too stupid to see that bullies rarely see themselves as bullies and it sets a really bad example for the kids watching (as if a 'click and accept button' is going to prevent the under 18 from watching).
Luke A to win (for lack of a better option).
OI DEANA.....ham isn't beef!! get it eaten woman
BB Aaron is a snivelling little girl the way he attacks girls in his gangsta idiom..........also BB the way he talks to women the tone the aggression is disgusting viewing from a pumped up Sandra Bullock look a like......however we all know that bullies are usual dreadfully insecure....thing is watching this behaviour especially Carolines sickening twisted bullet loaded venom is normalising such actions for many.......THIS IS NOT GOOD VIEWING
Just goes to show that bullies and aggressive people have more pull on these shows than decent people like deana…..Just watching these guys towards her makes me feel angry something needs done about it.But if enough people complain they will just hide it from the public untill she goes out.Conor needs kicked out or just leave evictions this week upto the veiwers i know id vote connor to b kicked all day long
I used to like connor but the fact that he hasn't apologised to deana is disheartening. Big brother has no standards in my eyes any more, as the more I watch it the more I cringe away at the blatant cruelty of caroline, connor and arron harbours. because they haven't taken an action against those three, it appears they've deemed this acceptable. Cannot watch this any more, my heart can't handle it. what a shame.
Kane that's a disgusting thing to say. No one deserves that kind of treatment, whether you dislike them or not.
Get deana out shes attention seeking idiot! She deserves what shes getting
deana needs to walk out of the show. NO one has the right to bully anyone like they are. sickening. not one of them imbeciles deserves to win the money. the prize amount needs to be drastically reduced as not one person in there deserves it.
get rid of connor
awful episode, shocking how disgusting people can be. not one person in that house is worthy of the prize money. the only person that was, was benny. he would have become a national asset that i would be proud of representing the UK outside of BB! the rest are an absolute embarrassment. vile individuals
absolutely vile episode, not how the UK should be represented!! connor is a vile being who the biggest fake there. not one person in the house apart from benedict has made me proud representing the people of britain. benedict was the ONLY one with morals, principals and a ethics in him. connor needs to be punished. bullying in all forms from arron, connor, luke must stop. caroline/ scott are sheeps. bring bennedict back !!!!!!!
Conner maybe still holding grudge from that first nomination, he sound like a grudge holding person. The bitching isn't fun anymore it's plain nasty. Characters beginning to dislike so much, can't bare to watch them. At least benedict and chris had good hearts, bored of the faces of Becky, Luke S, Caroline, Aaron, Conner. I think they should replace Conner and put Chris back in. Deana has had bad luck with couple of things beyond her control. The three lads are total idiots. And why they all have this rage building up against Deana is really really troubling, I think the three lads are just so used to being adored by females and cannot deal with Deana giving them no attention, it is mighty weird how deep there anger goes towards Deana
You people call this bullying lol wow, yeah she is being left its never nice but i would of prefered being left out then being left plus getting a kick in when i was younger she has it great. but in all honesty you need to stop acting like this if you people can handle abit of discontent between housemates then stop watching nobody is forcing you and to all these people saying ofcom stuff you look like an idiot higher arki wannabe lol be quiet.
groups formed like this last time there was a race row that damaged this show which really it has never recovered, bullying and threatening behavior at anyone is unacceptable especially for thousands of people to see. I HOPE BIG BROTHER WILL DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS AS IT IS REALLY DISCONCERTING AND I WILL COMPLAIN TO OF-COM UNTIL THIS MATTER HAS BEEN DEALT WITH!
tolerating connor's behaviour is shocking; this show has no integrity whatsoever, just cynical sensation chasing; it wil backfire though, there's nowhere to go once you reach a rock-bottom
Been removed have I? There's a shock! I am now finished with big brother and channel5. Unnacceptable. BYE THEN!
I have complained to ofcom, some may call me over dramatic but I don't care the whole episode was uncomfortable to watch, it has taken a sinister turn this series, it doesn't seem like a game show anymore.
I am so disgusted about whats going on in this episode...Im not a fan of Deana but there is no reason to why she should be treated in such a way annnnd on national television its humiliating and its bullying!!! I really think some of these so called contestants need a warning and a serious talking to because this behaviour is unacceptable. If this is a group of people representing our country then we should all be ashamed. This group are the most scheming, manipulating two faced and bullying people that has ever been on BB. I think BB has lost all sense of meaning this year especially when u compare it to the first few series. I dont think i will be watching next year and considering stoping watching it now! Not happy!
Lydia to go friday don't like hire go go good bye
BIG BROTHER! PUT A TWIST IN FOR FRIDAY WHERE WHOEVER GOES ALSO PICKS ANOTHER HOUSEMATE TO GO. OR TELL THEM AS THEY HAVE NOT TALKED ABOUT NOMINTIONS FOR A FEW DAYS THEN YOU WILL REWARD THEM SO THEY DON'T HAVE TO NOMINATE NEXT WEEK. THEN MAKE IT N ALL PUBLIC VOTE.
Can't believe big brother is allowing such vile behaviour in the house all in the name of entertainment.Connor and Aaron are the worst housemates ever,this goes to show,don't judge a book by it's cover,thought Aaron was a nice guy but obviously l was wrong.It seems to me big brother is condoning such dispicable vile characters.
KICK CONNOR OUT NOW!
CONNER NEEDS TO GET KICKED OUT, i can't believe that big brother would stand for such behaviour regardless of whether connor apologised or not, this is clearly bulling.
Forgive me if I don't believe that apology Conor, had he been sincerely apologetic then firstly his remarks about Deana would have changed & secondly he would have apologised to Deana.
It's evident that bb can remove comments of the site however the question I find myself asking is why is it they refuse to remove Conor from the house.
He was not even made to apologise to Deana, which as I recall was done when this show was aired on a different channel.
Clearly this show may have changed channel but this is history repeating itself & on this occasion BULLYING BEING INCOURAGED not only by housemates but by channel 5.
No doubt this message shall be removed as that is all bb can do rather than take action against the culprits they just remove comments to hide their involvement in the matter.
In my opinion this makes bb worse for encouraging it.
I hope if within the terms of being a bb housemate bb guarantee the safety of housemates they get sued as clearly they have failed miserably
kick conor out!
Why is channel 5od streaming soooooo bad???
denna@s got ASS sheesh! but true stories theres a lot of bullying going on here now OMG luke S wud get moved!! as for hes "chick" worst bbhm ever get her out of there plz!
hello there ! Av just arrived in the real World...its crap !! an contrary tae whit some eejit telt me, bullying happens here aswell...anyway, Connor, Ashliegh, Luke S, Sheivonne, Caroline, Scott, Aron and Sara aw talk sh'te and probably huvnae a clue how its coming across....understandable, cos there aw morons.
omg get a grip, Yes what he said was out of line but you people telling me you have never been angry and said somethings u dont mean.
lol its a reality tv show, And that is what happends in reality, People dont like other people. there tensions are going too be high there boared and locked in a house 247
these things are going too happen, connor is one of the best in there, actally someone with personality!!!
I'll repeat what I wrote on the BBOTS comments,
I was neutral on Connor before watching Mondays shows. Now I see what venom he is capable of. He and Arron have shown some extremely nasty unjust bullying traits, and Connors outburst was nothing short of disgusting. The 'cool club' ganging up on people who have done nothing nasty is very uncomfortable viewing. The only reddeming moment from that little gang was Ashleigh speaking up when so many of the others decided to blame Deana for Big Brothers disappointing prize. I'm assuming that was the same prize they would have got however many housemates would have been eligible? Just shows how nasty and vindictive so many (including Becky/Caroline etc ) are all too eager to pick on a scapegoat.
And the excuses being made for Connors comments on here are a very worrying example of what some people seem to think is ok. Borderline bullying? If the actions and ganging up wern't enough surely those vile words took it way beyond borderline? Its a symptom of the underlying nastiness, that he could say that in front of a group of people and not have any of them pull him up on it!
The definition of "bullying" is "To treat in an overbearing, cruel or intimidating manner" ... this definition accurately describes Conor, Aaron, Becky and Caroline ... Caroline I think is one of the most sly and mentally abusive house-mate Big Brother has ever had.
This would be a perfect time for the producers of Big Brother UK to show their strict morals and an ethical code of zero tolerance toward bullying and acknowledge it's seriousness.
If the producers don't make an example of the bullies it is easy for viewers to feel these people are endorsing the show in the name of cheap entertainment.
Big Brother has often been riddled with bad publicity, maybe it's time for Big Brother to show some integrity.
Im sorry but what is wrong with this website...who organises the technical stuff on channel 5. WORST EVER TV CATCH UP!! I enjoy watching big brother but on my laptop...but am forever only ever having issues with this silly website. DEAR CHANNEL 5 sort your site out!! you have lost a viewer for this series!!
Oh ch5, its no good removing the comments that tell people to report you to ofcom. 99% of your watchers are appauled at this episode and its the first thing their going to do. Shame on you ch 5, hang your head!!
everyone who is saying connor should be eviced. i think are a bit over the top. i agree that the words he used wasnt the best and can be seen as border line bullying, but he has got a point. the majority of housemates has horrible food. but ate it. deana, is such a drama queen. i understand she may not like it, but it was only spam. she could of at least had a good attempt to eat it. i agree with arron. she changes when she knows the camera are on her. this was all a show , but it back fired, thats why at the end she was laughing about it. i am no way defending connor comments but eviction guys a bit harsh. maybe a puniushment. arron comments werent bad, but like connor his tone of voice made it worse.
OKAY GUYS, if someones bullying deaaana big bro aynt gonna do anthing it a tv programe!! but i still do agree wid u xxx:) laaurenn all the waaayyyy xxxxxxxxxx:):)
Hi there I agree with what the majority of people are saying. What Connor said was vile and truly disgusting. No one deserves to be treated in that atrocious manner, what happened to respect? I don't think he or the majority of the people in this house knows what the word means. They 'gang up' on Deana who is weak and is not confrontational in anyway so they have the upper hand. It is really sad to watch and it makes me extremely angry that Big Brother has done so little to prevent this from happening. I think we will be seeing another Jade situation. It's harassment and it's bullying. This is making Channel 5 look seriously bad. Do something channel 5 before things get even worst. I have complaint to ofcom and hopefully channel 5 would wake up and smell the bully and sexual threats made directly/indirectly to Deana. She doesn't deserve this.
get vile ashley connor and carol out what awful awful people
This behaviour toward Deana is disgraceful - and Big brother brushes over it !!! Be ashamed BB !!!
How can this sort of bullying behaviour be condoned? Being the victim of bullying thugs, the sort of deranged tactics against someone else is being allowed, Big Brother you are clearly sending out the message that to bully someone or make threats towards someone is ok with you, the whole show should be closed down and never allowed to broadcast again, This is what happens when you put a bunch of strangers together, not a good idea.
Disgusted by Connor's remarks and as a long term BB fan am disappointed at the overwhelming number of chav/scum/bully type HM's this year.
Also Emma needs to host the MAIN show!!!
THERE WAS NO BULLYING YOU FOOLS
aaron should go. he has no respect. connor's attitude is very vile and innapropiate.
@Paul. Are you serious!! Bullying is when someone is subjected to cruelty, Coner blew off some insults in his own space and never said it to Deana.She had no idea he even said anything.
You lot need to grow up and get in the real world.
Big Brother Me And My Frind Love`s It
Complaint raised at,
Bullying like this should not be allowed.
conor and arrons behaviour in this show was vile! it made me feel uncomfortable to watch it. now im not deanas number one fan, but no one should have to go through that. im a regular watcher of big bro and im starting to question whether i should watch it anymore because if big bro is just reduced down to bullying and mean and hateful remarks about house mates then i would rather spend my nights watching something that doesn't make me as angry as this episode has done. channel five need to sort this out because this is not acceptable at all!
I love Big Brother but the bullying in this episode is disgraceful! I'm so shocked about what conor said, Big Brother should have punished him more or kicked him out completely!
I've made a complaint
What conor said was blowing well out of the water, he knew what he said was wrong u could see by his reaction from when big brother said to him!. Deana didnt hear him so its not like what he said upset her, its a game show and big brother only shows the bits thats gona get a reaction and of course this did.. Get over it!!.
Big Brother please boot connor - the only acceptable punishment.
get Deana and lydia out!!!!!!!!
There are nothing but mean and hateful people left in the house. NONE of them deserve to win ANYTHING!
Big brother it is only pranks when you like someone. this is bullying plain and simple. you need to restore confidence by dealing with the issue more effctively.
connor is bang out of order for what he said... and arron is just copying what others are saying about deana, connor needs to be kicked of the show for bullying, it was funny how in the end he didnt have much to say.. when arron was being a bitchy women and talking about deana.
Big Bro should do more then just telling him off, i will also make a complaint, if Big bro dont do anything about it.
Big bro should give connor and arron such a bad task to do and show them how it feels when no one is on there side
Big Brother producers really need to be putting damage control methods into place. Connor's behaviour was disgraceful but I am appalled that BB chose to air his words. Was this the ONLY footage available to them or are they so desperate for ratings that they chose this vile rant ? Something really needs to be done about this.
Their all bullying Deana and its so disturbing to watch,especially because she is stuck in a house with them. Conner should have been kicked out and ofcourse nothing happened,What if someone said that about a member of his family? the punishments are really annoying big brother should be protecting their housemates, wont be suprising if poor deana comes out depressed. How could he just have a warning?All the girls are being mean, especially becky who has just turned against deana after deana voted her in to stay, plus now deana has no friends. i feel sorry for her family.
Big brother should put Connor and aaron up for eviction for bullying that would be a fair punishment.
Connor for EJECTION!!!
i am shocked and upset about conor's words and I am very concerned big brother is not immediately removing him from the house. This behavior should not be tolerated, and by leaving him in the house big brother is sending the wrong message to the population - that bullying is ok. Arron should be warned as well, this constant bullying is horrible to watch.
Ofcom is looking into the problem I think conor will be kicked out. go online to ofcom and post your complaint the more people the better.
Unless Big Brother wants another full blown bullying scandal like the Shilpa Shetty incident they had better get Conor out of the house before they lose all their sponsors again and their company goes belly up LOL!
Jail !!! thats wher the buffoon belongs..him an aw his wee gang o puppets...prancing aboot in ther like the Mafia 'your no in our gang, so wer'e gonna nominate yous' kick them oot, they sicken me, an that connors outburst didnae surprise me at all...he kept calm for the first few days then his true personality started to erupt..seen it coming..he's nuffin but a vicious piece o work daeing his rant fur his cohorts...get them aw oot !!!...apart from adam, he's lovely :-))
to be honest i don't really like caroline she's so 2 faced i like connor he know that lydia and deena are bitches and i love scott he's my gay boyfriend ;)
GET CONOR OUT you can't just make jokes about rape and violence against women like that if nothing is done, my friends and I have all agreed never to watch Big Brother again.
i cannot stand arron connor and luke s, they think there better than everyone else and there not, they have a go at deana for showing off to the cameras, its not her fault if she doesnt like ham and to be honest arron and luke s are the biggest show-offs they think there the best also as soon as the camera looks at them they are either modelling or doing exercise.
connor needs to be kicked of the show for bullying
personally, i love connor. he tells it like it is, and the little moment with the epilator was so funny :D
Deana has done absolutely nothing wrong in my eyes. Failing a task does not excuse such disgusting language and such crude remarks being said about her. Caroline wasn't a 'team player' in the maze task and they said nothing to her but instead when it was Deana they choose to gang up on her which is blatant bullying. I pity the people who support Conor and want him to win £100,000 even after his disgusting comments about Deana. What a vile young man
connor is vile and needs to be kicked out cos of what he said. that is abuse especially to a women who has not provoked him of any sort! vile behaviour
god this big brother is getting so boring .. throw some new housemates in and cause some drama !
i love conor no matter what he said. i couldnt care less about deana she brings it all on herself and is possibly the fakest person ever.
So Deana didn't do so well at the food challenge, Not a big fan of her but house mates seriously need to cut her some slack! Caroline's being a bully now and need to get over the fear of the word Virgina its natural for Gods sake!
I would honestly be so happy if Deana got the loudest cheer ever. The poor girl has tolerated with far too much abuse in the house. She seems like a very classy and elegant woman and its a shame Conor is such a vile man
BIG BROTHER YOU NEED TO REPEAT THE CLIP ON THE TELEVSONS OF WHAT CONOR DID! SUCH A HORRIBLE PERSON. POOR DEANA..GET CONOR OUT!
i agree. 1
IF U WANT DEANA TO GET THE LOUDEST CHEER FROM THE AUDIENCE EVER WHEN HER NAME IS CALLED ON FRIDAY GIVE ME A (1)
ULITIMATELY BB has a choice to air something to the general public Deana had been picked on all day long so why did channel 5 see it necessary to air Connor degenerate into a vile aggressive monster after being fuelled by Caroline an adult public schoolgirl who is beastly simply by waking up of a morning....... the cool gang is being seen to be bullies with no respect for themselves never mind each other!! Channel 5 has a responsibilty to viewers in my opinion they should not have shown this disgusting scene chucked Connor out shown the remainder of the house how they are acting get some new people in the house who are fun and up for the craic and not victimising people.
Conor was not only joking about punching her but joking about sexually assaulting Deanna how is he still in the house he is disgusting! I have never complained to Ofcom in my life but I have just finished writing to them about how Big Brother let someone joke about rape and violence against women and still didn't remove them. Disgusting.
i just cant beleive that deana's parents and family in india will be watching her daughter be verbally abused and sexually humiliated on t.v. deana is a very well presented naive and innocent which makes this situation even more displeasing. now i just cant wait to see the reaction on their silly little faces when deana gets the louders cheer from the audience when her name is called out. then watch how they all become her best friend.
This episode of big brother last night made me feel absolutely sick the vile language which was used towards Deana. Big Brother you need step up the mark and make your rules more firm.
why hasn't big brother thrown connor out so that the police can speak to him? sexual threats are a serious matter!
i am really glad that we the viewers are up in arms about this appalling behaviour from Conor......Yet, whilst we watch this viciousness unfold...Conor is at a table of people. No one there said anything to stop, curb or pull Conor up at all.
Ashleigh even engaged with him about it. So, I take that the rest of them, Arron, Luke S, Shievionne, Becky, Scot and Catherine just accepted his abusive mouthiness as OK....??? Pack of bullies.
All of them around that table should have pulled Conor up. Yet None, Not one did...Horrible, horrible people. this show really does prove that seemingly attractive people really can be the ugliest of all.
i have a bad taste in my mouth about this. I am glad the good people on here and the web sites are speaking out about this unacceptable behaviour.
Also absolutely disguted after watching this episode. Caroline, Aaron, Connor and Luke S are just vile bullies and i am finding this series of BB really difficult to watch because of this. Connor should be kicked out after his comments last night and to be honest i also think a few of the others should be kicked out for bullying too. It is not enjoyable to watch this 'cool' gang and BB really needs to do something about it.
if you guys were disturbed by connor's statements that please fill out the ofcom form, something like this should not be taken lightly especially if a housemate it being bullied: https://stakeholders.ofcom.org.uk/tell-us/specific-programme-epg
I think Connor's comments could be classed as acceptable if they were made towards one of his 'friends' who he became angry with for a short time or were said as a joke to someone who he actually got on with - true they still wouldn't be nice but I wouldn't condemn him the same.
However the way he acted on Monday's show was vile. He has a problem with deana and the whole house knows that and joins in with what can only be classed as bullying, both him and arron constantly use vile language towards her for what, for being a bit annoying? For not eating some Spam?
CALL THE POLICE! she didn't eat some spam.
Also she thought it was beef (reasonable, cos tbh spam doesn't really look like any meat does it) This is just a guess now, but it's likely that she is Hindu, I'm not really sure, but THEY DON'T EAT BEEF. That might have something to do with why she found it so repulsive. Its irrelevant anyway, even if she hadn't even tried it she didn't deserve that.
To use language that implies inserting something inside someone sexually, punching them in the face and swearing in an angry way towards someone who you openly have a problem with can never be justified.
I can't believe some people are supporting him in this, truly disturbing.
Genuinely disturbed and uncomrotable after watching that episode. There is alot of bullying going on in the house and Big Brother need to punish the housemates responsible for it. Absolutely disgusted by it and will complain to Ofcom.
The food they were given was all edible so that is no argument, the egg is a delicacy and we all know dog food is eaten by humans to test it. How people can say that his vile ramblings were 'just anger/ heat of the moment' is beyond comprehension. When I get mad I do not ramble on (in detail I hasten to add) such depraved and vile comments, I may call people names etc and curse...' all people do it nowadays' is also pathetic, I have not heard such depraved comments from any of my friends etc
I have also complained to ofcom, a thing which I never though that I would do either as I am very broad minded, however if we advocate this type of behaviour and leave it unaccounted for then we only have ourselves to blame for societies short comings. He should leave the house and go home and apologise to his mother and girlfriend for making a fool out of them all.
yh lose all this racism n labels just see it for what it is a beautiful, classy lady been set upon by a group of adolecents who need to grow up and start been entertaining or go home to grow up, oh why did benedict go he was too fi and an absolute gentlemen. <3 benedict
These housemates really are vile. Apart from Luke A, who appears to be a somewhat normal, unassuming person, the rest are literally like hunger fame animals. Lauren was ganged up on terribly, Lydia slags off anything that moves and seems to forget that the world is watching her do so and the rest (one exception) are prepared to do anything it would seem. Channel 5 have lost the plot. There's no class or standard to the show anymore. Seriously, the housemates this year are nothing short of car-crash!
to all those who still like connor after his disgusting behaviour after lst night seriously!!!!!!!!!! think how u wud feel if that was ur sister, cousin, auntie, mum etc no excuse for that it was completely wrong and arron is just as bad eating her choc and moving her stuff this is definately bullying cos they wouldnt do that to anyone else try doing it to luke s, luke a or adam it wudnt be as funny wud it, becky and caroline just showed how immature they are going the bandwagon im sorry these have to go!!!!!!!!!!!! Channel 5 your a disgrace and making pplfeel so upset watching somethig that is supposed to be fun and continung to accept this disgrace, i can joke as much as the nxt person but this years just makes me soooo furious to watch
Totally shocked that channel 5 actually aired Connors rant........couldn't believe it when he started his outburst and duly reported this today at Ofcom the first time I have ever felt the need to make a complaint but so necessary when someone with so much anger is prepared to lose control in the most disgusting way......it is not banter or fun to scapegoat someone so much and degrade them, if this is entertainment channel 5 should seriously consider changing the name from big brother to pig brother simply because I have never seen such piggish behaviour so excluding childish and immature...... totally thoughtless and yet aggressive and full of menace..... channel 5 please do something about this programme so far they have had it easy imagine when things get tougher.....mind you the majority of people in this seasons show and cowards and emotionally stunted so they need a sharp jolt of humanity to remind them that to bully is disgusting behaviour .....Connor to go!!
Okay, how about we lose words like 'racist' and phrases like 'sexual abuse' and focus on the fact that his comments were, quite simply, appalling. It's almost like people need to put a label on something to make it qualify as bad behaviour these days when, in fact, it's just that, bad behaviour! His comments were extremely rude and inappropriate, and bearing in mind that Deana's parents/friends were probably watching, unacceptable. I liked Connor prior to this but he's shown himself to be quite nasty. However, if the producers are going to disqualify or punish contestants for less than this, they need to reconsider how they've dealt with this. Pep talks don't really cut it!
how would you have liked if someone made a comment like that to your mum/sister/daughter/aunt/nan etc.. Its easy for you to justify his words/actions but im guessing if the shoe was on the other foot than you wouldnt have this attitude towards the whole situation... & about the ham situation - shes an indian and they dont eat ham.. thats why she found it hard to eat - but being a teamplayer she gave it a try and tried her best to swallow some,a s she didnt want to let the team down..& having such discouragement from arron and the others didnt help either!!
Oh my goodness everyone get over it! Conors a lad and he was joking around! Deena was being waaay to dramatic about eating ham! like ham? seriously? others had to eat fermented egg, she needs to catch a grip. And those saying conors racist and is implying rape need to get a grip also! its the 21st century, people make jokes like that everyday, hes hardly going to do anything silly that will ruin his chances of winning! I like conor :)! Deena and Lydia are so fake!
I think Big Brother should remove Connor for the vile things he said. I have never heard anything so disgusting in my life.
Also, I've never complained in my life about anything I've watched on TV - I'm off the mind that if you don't like it then switch off ... but I've complained to Ofcom about this episode. The point is Channel Five: you look like you are endorsing bullying of the worst kind. If you had dealt with this nasty sexist threatening man, then I would have made no complaint. You failed in your duty as a broadcaster though and so I had no alternative but to make my voice heard about something I found extremely upsetting.
Even the producers on BB bit on the side are bitches towards Deana, they say bullying isn't right so why are they speaking about her like she's stupid? This show is getting out of hand and showing young people that bullying is right when it's not. Absolutely pathetic need to sort it out, it was never like this before. I agree with everything everyone has said about Conor, Arron and Caroline. This isn't an entertainment show any more it's like a show that promotes bullying and I think it is so out of order that big brother isn't trying to stop it in anyway they think it's entertainment when it's not!!
never thought id say this because im not the complaining type but just made official complaint to offcom. just cant sit back and watch someone be bullied its making the show hard to watch, obviously the producers thinks its fine. if that's what they have shown can u imagine what the haven't, please channel 5 let all the bullies know its not acceptable and maybe if you kicked connor out they would know how serious it is
I feel disgusted after watching this episode. If Big Brother doesn't act further I wont be continuing to watch this years BB as its no fun and i find the treatment of Deanna by the other housemates too upsetting.
Several of the housemates bully individuals and several of the housemates are foulmouthed at times.Neither are pleasant traits. But I have to confess I haven't ever felt moved to comment before now! Connor's rant on Monday night's episode was shameful and seriously worrying. Up until that point I thought Connor was an OK bloke, a reasonable housemate, etc. But he has shown himself up to be someone quite different, far more sinister! I also worry about those few who continue to support him. They must be comfortable with the aggression, hatred and sheer vileness of his words.
I've also made a complaint to Ofcom. I was disgusted about what Conor said about Deana and what made it even worse is Big Brother didn't take the appropriate action that was required to deal with the situation. I'm very glad that many others feel the same.
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Big brother you should punish the people that are making other house mates upset
Lydia is so two faced and fake she talks to everyone in little groups saying we should stick together only so they don't nominate her, cant stand her anymore. The boys should stop being so harsh on Deana.
Big brother is allowing bullying
Just some food for thought... Imagine you were in the place where there were people from mostly one different backround/culture & there was only one of your kind (you). Straight away you would feel slightly uncomfortable in that situation - worried whether the others would understand you, repsect your values and norms..right? but on top of that people are playing tricks on you, insulting you, calling you names, shouting things out to you,bitching behind your back, moving away when you come and sit down etc... just imagine how would that make YOU feel, if you were in that position? ...
I can not believe Connor has been aloud to stay in our TV screens after his comments towards Deana, get that idiot out !
People comparing Deana's threat to punch Arron in the face, with Connor's threat - are you serious?
Ask yourselves, who's parents and family felt worse when they heard each threat?
BB shouldn't evict Connor, they should play the footage to the rest of the housemates.
Shame on you Channel 5.
The Bit On The Side Programme is purile rubbish. It was no surprise that last night they didn't grasp how nasty, sexually explicit and violent this thug's comments were.
To broadcast this and then downplay it was disgusting.
The warning signs were they when they didn't bat an eyelid at Frankie Cocozzas disgusting term "smash it" being used in the celeb version.
I guess the liberal ellites who work in the media have different morals from ordinary folk.
I've had experiences in the past where comments with web links in get deleted automatically: everyone posting comments with the Ofcom links in should modify them so that the software doesn't automatically pick them up and them delete them...
I'm at work and cant read all the above comments but if this is regarding the comments made by Connorlast night, I would like to add that I think it is absolutely disgusting that C5 would allow him to continue in the house after openly threatening to shove instruments up genitalia and 'knock out' a female housemate that he and his idiotic sidekick, Aaron, have taken a disliking to. I am suprised that C5 would only give him a subtle telling off for threateningsexual violence towards a femaile. Shame on you C5. Redeem yourselves and kick him out TONIGHT!
Iv just managed to watch the uncensored version of last nights episode!!!!!!!. in previous years, people have been eviced for less than connors outburst!!!!!!.what bothers me is that nobody flinched at what he said!!!!? ohers are hot on his heels(arron,caroline,becky) in making her even more secuded!!! perhaps the intention is for her to walk out. very few nice people in this years.shame the public choose not to keep benedict in!.
i love connor he right deanna puts an act on for the t.v i hate her she needs to go!
Channel 5 can delete the comments all they want it doesn't change the fact people are not happy about this and it is not going to go away. I have already complained to Ofcom,Big Brother Sponsors via there website and telephoned the complaints department of Channel 5 themselves this morning. I am also finding out if and how Ican go about making an official complaint to the police. I have never complained about a TV programme before but this time I am, threats of sexual and physical violence should never be tolerated! People have been removed for alot less in previous years, get this thug out!
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conor is absolutly disgusting. kick him out. i cant get over how disgusting that was.
Amazing how so many comments mentioning Ofcom have been 'removed by moderator'. Could have used a moderator last night when Conor was threatening rape with a foreign object. Disgusting!
I AGREE MZ KAZ. Are Channel 5 adding insult to injury? They know people are disgusted on here, and on top when they try to voice their concerns, they discard them. Hello? Channel 5? Your meant to use these comments to assist you in deciding what action should be taken; not throw them out as being meaningless.
COMPLAIN TO OFCOM EVERYONE. - THANKS CHRISTOPHER AND NIGEL FOR PROVIDING THE DETAILS OF HOW IT SHOULD BE DONE.
And as for "Asdf", I think your comment lacks substance and is purely untenable. If Channel 4 used to do it, what makes you think Channel 5 should be taken more lightly now that they are doing it? Surely Channel 5 were best placed to understand the controversy when it was broadcasted on Channel 4, and should therefore use that knowledge and adopt measures to ensure something like this will never happen on Channel 5?
I agree with Nigel. Irrespective if you like Deana as a person or not, BULLYING IS UNACCEPTABLE. Imagine if a school kid hated your child. Would you side the bully or would you side your child? Well, put yourself in Deana's parents shoes then.
i think what i just watched was absolutely disgusting. connor got off so lightly, i felt sick watching what he said. literally so disgraced. i will be calling offcom today anybody else called them?
Nigel, why are you getting so wound up about this? BB, Neighbors, Home and Away and most the other tripe that Channel 5 push out is bought from another broadcasting company after people lost interest in watching it and became ..... you can fill in the gap there! Well done C5 for being the lowest common denominator in broadcasting!
WOW, comments urging others to report this to Ofcom are beign REMOVED by this site!! Pathetic behaviour from Channel 5, trying to discourage viewers from reporting the vile actions that they allowed to take place on one of their programs! REPORT TO OFCOM and let's force that vicious bully Connor out of the show!!!
Totally confused here.. so it was okay for Deana to say she'd love to punch aaron in the face.. she didnt mean it literally either so everyone was happy to not even take notice of that? HELLO... Conor did not mean it literally! And for those saying he is implying rape or being racist catch a grip for god sake hes far from doing or being any of those things! Big brother is all about creating a bit of controversy for entertainment and the first bit we get yous want him up for eviction. He was genuinely annoyed with himself after he came out of the DR u could see it written al over his face! Come to derry and youll see the usual banter has that type of attitude, we dont take things like that literally here and Conor just didnt realise that his humour would be taken so serious!
sounded wrong spur of the moment, don't think he'd actually stick the epilator some how or hit her , the house mates around the table were encouraging him too say something when saying what would you do, Lydia is horrible
Can someone please tell me at what point connor made this horrible comment i seemed to have missed it when i watched it last night..
I'm astonished Channel 5 seem to be editing my comments in order to avoid shame.
Here is my message again:
THOSE OF YOU WHO THINK WHAT THE HOUSEMATES WERE DOING WAS ACCEPTABLE, ASK YOURSELF IF YOU WOULD BE HAPPY IF SOMEBODY DID THAT TO YOUR CHILD????
I'm complaining to OfCom, because I know Channel 5 will be very quick to defend their position. I already got word that ofCom have launched an investigation but their investigation would be greatly assisted if more people express their disapproval. So I guess people, if you don't like what happen to Deana, or if your someone who condemns bullying generally, then submit a complaint.
The link and details "CHRISTOPHER SAMUEL" gave below is accurate so follow it people!
THOSE OF YOU WHO THINK WHAT THE HOUSEMATES WERE DOING WAS ACCEPTABLE, ASK YOURSELF IF YOU WOULD BE HAPPY IF SOMEBODY DID THAT TO YOUR CHILD????
I'm complaining to Channel 5. I already got word that ofCom have launched an investigation but their investigation would be assisted if more people express their disapproval. So I guess people, if you don't like what happen to Deana, or if your someone who condemns bullying generally, then submit a complaint.
The link and details "Chris J" gave below is accurate so
THOSE OF YOU WHO THINK WHAT THE HOUSEMATES WERE DOING WAS ACCEPTABLE, ASK YOURSELF IF YOU WOULD BE HAPPY IF SOMEBODY DID THAT TO YOUR CHILD????
I'm complaining to Channel 5. I already got word that ofCom have launched an investigation but their investigation would be assisted if more people express their disapproval. So I guess people, if you don't like what happen to Deana, or if your someone who condemns bullying generally, then submit a complaint.
The link and details "Chris J" gave below is accurate so its best to follow it.
Well it seems people have very split opinions on what was said by Conor about Deana, so I think he should be automatically up for eviction and let the oublic decide whether it truly was too far.
I don't know what makes me laugh more, Chris's outburst or the fact people actually watch this garbage.
I'm appalled that Connor STILL has not been kicked out. The comments Connor made about putting a HAIRBRUSH up her genitalia! Rape with a foreign object in other words is VILE. BB need to sort this out.
BECAUSE CHANNEL 5 SEEM TO THINK BULLYING MAKES GOOD TELEVISION, LETS SHOW THEM WHO IS BOSS. BULLYING IS SERIOUS AND THE WORLD MAKES GREAT EFFORTS TO SHOW THE EFFECT IT HAS ON PEOPLE AND WHY IT NEEDS TO BE STOPPED. SHOWS LIKE BIG BROTHER, EVEN IF IT IS DIRECTED TO ADULTS, ARE REPUGNANT. IT DOES NOT MATTER IF DEANA IS AN ADULT; BULLYING EFFECTS EVERYONE.
TO THINK THAT BIG BROTHER ACTUALLY KNOWS THAT PEOPLE IN THE HOUSE HIDE EACH OTHERS BELONGINGS, ALLOWS ISOLATION AND ABUSE, ALLOW THEM TO EAT MEAT WHICH IS CONTRARY TO THEIR RELIGION IS DISGUSTING.
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punch and knock out a female after forcibly inserting objects into her genitalia - this is offensive on so many levels - complaints to ofcom and c5 should be made on this poor girls behalf - say no to bullying - all it takes for evil to prosper is for people of goodwill to do nothing
BB owes Dena a duty of care to protect her from such vile and reprehensible actions, additionally Coner is also owed the same. Therfore he should be removed firstly to protect Dena and if he is allowed to stay and continues on this vein then he will be vilified further by the public and the media which is obviously not in his best interest. What he did was abhorrent and in all the years I've watched this show have never felt the need to complain about an individual.
I was completely disgusted to watch Big Brother last night. This show is suppose to be an entertainment programme. What I witnessed was a barrage of abuse and hatred, from a male member of the house "Conner". Within the content of this disturbing and sinister conversation, which made reference to him wanting to forcibly insert objects into a female housemates genitalia, it also included his admission in to wanting to cause grievous bodily harm, by punching and knocking out this particular female. The conversation which also saw other housemates, sit and laugh at this males vile rant. What upset and astonished me most, was Ch5 did not reprimand this individual and did not punish him for bullying and intimidating behaviour. Yes they did tell him to re look at his action. This is not good enough, severe consequences should be given to anybody who uses threatening language or incites violence - bullying should not be glamourised and accepted and c5 needs to recognise their responsibilities, and have zero tolerance to this unacceptable behaviour. Big Brother should not become synonymous with harassment and possible racism.
Both Conner and Arron have shown disgusting behaviour! They ARE bullying Deana just because she does not conform to their rules and become the way they want her to. Caroline did not even eat anything and states she wouldn't have been able to yet she criticises Deana. Channel 4 were a lot more sensitive to bullying and Deana has explicitly said she feels bullied yet the channel is taking no action. I will be complaining to Ofcom as this is upsetting to watch and I will not be watching from now on.
Have any of you considered that Deana failed task because she thought she was eating beef and Hindus don't eat beef. And Connor, Arron and Caroline, Ashleigh and Luke S are the bullies in the house and supposedly the 'cool kids'. Scott and Becky are the wannabes! If BB is not kicking them out, or putting them up, why not play the recording to the whole house?!!!
dana is being bullied! how come none of the others got called drama queens when they were heaving and nearly throwing up? lydia is such a stirrer and needs to go and arron and conners behaviour was disgusting and lucks come to that! deana is just a quiet person shes not vindictive or anything why are they being so cruel?becky is starting to join the in crowd now and was a bit nasty aswell im going off her
Conna said bad thing but it is not in contest, he was saying it as joking for rest of gang, they found it funny so must be okay. What is thing he wanty to ram ??
Conor's behaviour and comment about Deana were vile and disgusting; he should be evicted from the house. Come on Big Brother do the right thing. And what about the rest of the so called 'cool gang’ not. They asked him what he would do to /Deana and hung on his every word not one of them pulled him up. Caroline started it off by shouting across the room to Deana about her epilator being on the table (bullying), why not mentioned it to her privately. Then she hid the same epilator in the kitchen amongst food. Double standards or what? They should all be taken in to a room and be made to what themselves back and DEBATE what they saw.
anyone saying that connor was in the right here, should not be a part of society! they all need to be put up for eviction and let us decide.
Im just watching bit on the side catch up and there is gonna be a lot of "get Connor out" chants on Friday. I also agree with the woman in the audience who said he should be up for automatic eviction - let us decide if he should go or not...
Its not like conor hit her, your all over reacting this goes on in real life daily and none of you do anything about it
Deana is a true person being nothing more than one hunderd percent real.. shes beautiful inside n out...connar needs chucking out hes
fake unreal and a big bully.. the way he spoke bou deana was disgusting.
hahahaha !! aw the Connor luvvers are bleating that we aw dae an say things in anger that we later regret...true, difference here is that Connor dusnae regret it...good on ye Connor keep that mouth rattling an we'll soon be rid o ye -ya muppet !
Deeply disappointed in the big brother production team. Please put them all up for eviction to get them back to reality.
Deana has done nothing wrong, and even if she had, no one deserves that. I am Disgusted at what connor said, but not only that, she is being bullied in the house and has been for weeks.
Thanks for replying Sara lol. Im not gonna comment any more on this particular thread as Im just too busy. See u all on the next one...:)
Emmaapples I am amazed no one else noticed Ashleigh rolling her eyes as she was consoling Deana (I think at some point she was smiling aswell), isn't she the most vilest person in there?
As for Conor, he has been aggressive to Deana since day 1 really when she voted for him on the first day. His hatred for her has been boiling up inside him for a long time. He found the perfect excusse to attack her yesterday when she failed to complete the tast. Not only is he a nasty person but a loser as well. Big Brother you need to take a harsher approach because bullying in any shape or form this is unacceptable.
@Sara - Being a primary school teacher you teach the founation basis, lets face it you didn't teach Conor so your 'teachings' won't do a thing to any of us.
Conor is a 'lad' they say things like that - Get over it.
Alan I disagree with your statement because Deana is oblivious to the anger Corner expressed to her. Deana went outside and told her fellow housemates that Corner had been summoned to the diary room as a result of something h had said to someone, unknown to Deana that it was about no other but herself. I feel it is only acceptable that Corner apologises, I as a primary school teacher, teach the foundation stage that when we say something that could potentially hurt someone’s feeling we should apologies. Corner being a grown man should uphold similar morals. I do hope I don’t come across aggressive in anyway. Kindest regards Sarah
I agree with @BigBruvther
Conor is a legend.
@Sara & @BeckyM
Freedom of Expression like you stated Sara..... Becky can have her opinions too.
Conor just expressed his opinions, and those opinions were warranted. The people on here don’t seem to have a sense of humour. Complaining to Ofcom is snide and completely unwarranted. If you did not like what you heard or saw, I suggest not watching the programme in future.
What Conor Said was perfectly fine, all of your people who are complaining to OfCom should be ashamed yourselves, before the show starts viewer disgression is advised. From what we’ve seen Deana has been a complete idiot through failing tasks for the ‘team’ showing her teambuilding skills are low which gives the house low moral, which is why all the arguments occur, personally I think it’s stupid how everyone is complaining about Conor’s use of words – He didn’t threaten anyone to their face, and it was seen as a joke, hence the reason he attempted to rap it before hand and failed.
Becky M clearly your concept of humour is different to mine. Using such vulgarity is unacceptable whether that be intended as a joke or not. Deana is clearly feeling isolated and whether people chose to believe that she is intentionally playing the role of a victim is freedom of thought. In my humble opinion no one person should be spoken to in such a manner. Its very easy to make judgment when we are discussing about someone other than ourselves. Take a minute to think how you would feel if you were spoken to in such a manner. Empathy goes a long way. Regards.
He was angry, all of you shut up.. Whoever is saying they are only telling him off for the sake of us, that's clearly wrong because it said before they went in in the handbook that no behaviour like this was permitted.. He said sorry and that he wouldn't do it again. He won't be removed from the house, he's been spoken to and to bring it back up again would be inappropriate for both Conor and Deana as Conor has apologised and knows he's in the wrong and Deana would have to hear what he said, just let it be and he won't do it again..
Krista !!!! I also got the same impression that the women who was "supposed" to be telling Corner off was actually smiling this is absolutley discusting. Big Brother should be impartial but it doesnt seem at all like that. I also belive that BB are isolating Deana from the rest of the house.
i thought what connor ssaid was hilarious, not like he meant it all literally he was angry and as he explained he didnt mean it and it was the anger deana and lydia need to leave, theyh play up to the cameras and are drama queens, all they had was spam and custard and they still made a drama because they knew the cameras would be rolling,
You all need to get of your high horse so you're saying none of you have ever said something u don't mean out of anger he did NOT actually go through with his threats he was angry get over it and stop making such a big issue out of it. Deana wants to b a victim of everything she needs to grow a backbone.
I am appalled by the channel 5 and Big Brother produces for clearly promoting such hatred and animosity within the house, it is evident that Dean is a victim. Big Brother spoke to Corner , which seems to me only for the sake of what the public may have thought otherwise. I strongly feel the group of individuals that are targeting Deana should have been disciplined greater. At this very minute I feel outraged that such behaviour is clearly been promoted.
Ooh lots of conflicting opinions since I posted last night. What I am MOST peed off about is when Connor went into the Diary Room, the woman "telling him off" sounded like she was smiling as she was talking. Did anyone else get that impression??
Just companied to offcom regarding Connor unpunished Behaviour with his disgusting remarks towards deana. Get him out!!!!! And arron too!!! Both as bad as each other...5 year old kids behave better than them!!!!!!
i would just like to also point out.. "connor said something again" ... AGAIN? did anyone else hear the housemates say this? so he has been told off already for previous language and hasnt learnt his lesson! what is he likely to say next time "anger takes over".
How many of us have been around friends or acquaintances, that have made statements that are chargeable offences if carried out? Connor is an social delinquent. Say's things before he thinks. Statements have been made in previous years and will be made again and again in the future. He is in the house because the producers vetted him and are aware of the stupid idiotic statements that would have captured the attention of people who do not leave there house or have friends to complain to ofcom, between there ironing and dusting the dustbins. He is an immature muppet. So he will not win. But hey , put Caroline in a court room for the prosecution and every male who says a woman is Gorgeous will be behind bars ....now that's got my attention. BB gets fool from all warts of life...Deal with it !!!!
This episode was absolutely vile. I cannot believe BB have allowed a HM to stay in when he said he would punch someone in the face and violate her with a hair brush! this is disgusting! I've complained to OfCom and hope something will be done about this. This kind of threatening behaviour can be taken as a criminal offence!
Connor needs to be removed he has broken the law using threatening abuisve behaviour directed at Deana. He has broken big brothers rules and is definately bullying her. I found it disturbing and unpleasant to watch, it was not entertainment and has put me off watching big brother. If he isnt removed i will not be watching big brother as a protest.
Kate, he never said it to deana's face no, but whilst in the diary room never even said sorry. he should have had the respect to say to deana "i have been told of some inappropriate behaviour.. and i apologise" but he didnt because when she comes out she is going to be deeply hurt and probably feel like people were laughing at her. when my ex boyfriend used me as a punch bag, he would say, "anger took over" but it didnt make it right!! luckily i managed to escape him but he assaulted my dad on the way out! im all for second chances but condoning connors "way with words" is an absolute JOKE! and i am deeply offended as are other viewers hence the complaints. those people that keep saying comment on something important in the world.. . well this is important to me. he may not punch her in the face or shove things in certain places but the fact he spoke about it in that way and the others laughed at him. DISGUSTING. any one who thinks that is ok clearly does not have half a brain cell. and to the people who are complaining.. good job!! :)
Finally, there are still nice people in the UK who see how those idiots are bullying Deana or the rest of the house mates...I hate that little group of LUKE S followers...unfortunately, they are directing this BIG BROTHER and that's just not nice...i don't like this year's BB
I think Connor should have more done to him than giving a shopping list, I know that will be hard as he has only 2 brain cells but come on big brother he is vile!
Conner is Hot! He said Sorry for his language, anger gets the best of us even t the best of us x
I live in Canada and have followed Big Brother UK for the past few years because I loved the people and characters and prefered the way they play the game there. Its a lot nicer and the good people seemed to win as opposed to American Big Brother where sneaky and selfish behavior won out. Unfortunately for me, tonight's episode of Big Brother UK proved that they really aren't that different at all. I'm disgusted by Connor's comments and the blatant and very obvious BULLYING going on. Deana is being bullied by Connor, Arron, Caroline, Becky and the rest of this apparently "popular" group. The worst part is, it's like the producers and condoning this horrendous behavior. Connor should be up for eviction automatically or maybe even be kicked out of the house for the seriousness of the comments he made. He didn't even seem to take it seriously after the conversation with big brother. I am absolutely shocked. I will continue to follow the show to see if they do anything about this situation but if they don't, I will be done with this show. No one should watch something that teaches our kids that bulling is alright.
I dont see why Deana should work as part of the team as the only time the so called team want her involved is on tasks, everyone else did it for the team because they are part of the team and feel the pressure.
How can you say let Connor prove hes a good person hes been one of the most nasty in there so even before the Deana thing he was still unpleasant.
thats sad thay hate deana
lol every one is being pathetic about conor calm the hell down what he said was all right so all stop getting butt-tickled
take it kate ure related to connor then?
i think its upsetting to watch big brother seeing how everyone is bullying deana. in my eyes she hasn't even done anything wrong.. fair enough she may be a bit annoying but she is being treated like a piece of shit and its horrible to watch. i think deana should save her dignity and walk out. nobody deserves to be treated like that. even becky who was supposed to be her friend has now teamed up with vile caroline and hiding her epilator, it makes me so mad!
Paul Crowther esq.
AT LAST!! Big Brother Bosses have decided to Issue a statement on the News to say Connor is being charged with Conspircy to commit sexual assualt when released from the house, maybe in the next day or so.
I just read comments for those that think Connors behaviour is acceptable. This is where BB and channel 5 needs to step up and do the right thing. I remember a girl getting kicked off the show for using words "pow pow" and making hand signals with some type of threat. It's a double standard, if you're against violence then it should not be selective. Connor threatened violence against another housemate that's a woman, to make it worse it was also sexual. This has nothing to do with if he js a nice person or raised well. It's about whats Right and Wrong. His behaviour should not be acceptable period. He was way out of line and therefore should not be rewarded by remaining on a show and earning money.
Connor should be removed from the house as punishment for his vile behaviour
I have already made a complaint to OFCOM. Channel 5 and Big Brother have a duty and obligation to the public. I'm outraged that Connor could get away with saying what he did and firstly, not one person in the house said anything and then Big Brother gave him a slap on the wrist. They are sending a message to victims of abuse to keep quiet as society thinks it's acceptable behaviour . It's degrading, disgusting, disrespectful and unacceptable period. If that's how he behaves and talks about a woman when not under the influence, how the hell is he after a couple of drinks? The man needs help and if that was my boyfriend talking to me like that, I would have him arrested. People need to report this to OFCOM as it's obvious BB is not going to do anything. We were all subjected to abuse as far as I'm concerned. I came home to relax, watch some light hearted entertainment and didn't sign up for this type of reality TV. I am glad Deana didn't hear it as can't imagine anyone having to be subjected to such nastiness!
Go to Ofcoms website with the links provided and actualy spend 5 minutes DOING SOMETHING ABOUT THIS NASTY PEICE OF REALITY TV. We can all say we do no tlike the comments, so SHOW YOU DISAGREE BY COMPLAINING. HOW ELSE DO YOU THINK ACTION IS REPRIMANDED ?? CMON PPL. COMPLAINNNNNNNNNNN
I really do not like any of the 'Cool Gang' Ashleigh is the most two faced housemate EVER, hugging deana , and pulling faces... and she actually looks like a weasel !.
horrid selfish girl.
I really like Caroline's sharp wit. and I love Luke A, and Adam, they seem to be the most genuine housemates, yeah Adam is a bit letchy at times , but he is a man after all lol. This year is SO much better than last.
Kate, I am a guy. Never, NEVER, in a million years would I say something that disgusting about a girl. Regardless of anger, stress etc.
I'm lost for words that you're basically defending him.
She's a big girl, if she can;t look after herself, she should have never of entered, or she should leave now.
kate he wasn't sorry though and meant every word, and why should we wait for him to actually harm someone before reacting, that would irresponsible. Put it this way its a tv show and i don't want anyone seeing that as normal acceptible behaviour, hence the ofcom complaints, 1000s by now.
Also nasty nick got kicked out for a note, emily for using racial term, bb should get rid of him too, not just what he said, the way he said it, and its not the first time either, he's been bullying deana for ages, coz she nominated him 1st week.
Chloe if conor is your definition of a nice lad, you need to meet more people...
that was complete bull shit. how the hell can they blame failing or not getting a better prize on deana. clearly everyone was eating the food for them selfs as one particular house mate was going to get a prize if deana didnt like she doesnt have to eat it!. connor is clearly bullying her and so are other housemates teamimg up with him. ashleigh mentioned its not her fault she tried but no their bullys and i think it might be racism aswell!. the prize was not for the whole team it was for one particular housemate in this case connor gets to do the shopping list!
Night after night, they use abusive, horrid, language and comments aimed at Denana, filled with hatred and venmon - that is unkind. Do they not think that her parents and family are watching, that the anger, hurt and shame that they must feel for their daughter. Think about it, put yourself in their position. These people know that they are being filmed, they are young, yes, but they are not children and should know better and know the effect it causes to family. Channel 5, Shame on you for not demanding that Aaron and Conner moderate their behaviour towards Deana. You are allowing unacceptable behaviour to run rife in the house. You obviously think this is acceptable.
Ok so connor got a bit angry n said some nasty stuff, so has the rest of us at some point, people annoy us we say things that we don't mean. Get over it people, its big brother, if you don't like it. Don't watch it.
i still don't understand why they have such a hate for deana. Yes shes kinda boring, miserable, wateva but she hasn't actually done anything like majorly bad, i dont get it. she dont even speak to "connor gang".
Just to emntion i aint a fan of deana, and i actually quite like connor but comments today were so out of order.
Lydia annoys me though. Sad that she doesnt even know that she does all those things she says every1 else does. she is the ost two faced, stirring contestant on this show.
AND i am 100% against bullying but i also believe in second chances!! I no what bullying is as i was bullied before and i know how it feels. in my eyes he hasnt said anything bad about deana other than he dont like her untill this episode. i also think you need to read the term of bullying and clear that up.
this makes me angry! do you really think they have got be perfect? i could put money on it that all these so called polite and mannered people have all bad mouthed and said awful things before just that no one see's it. i think you's need to analyse the situation and maybe think yeah he said something like everyone does give him another chance. His parents have probably raised him well and have taught him good manners but cos he said one bad thing he disgusting? rude? i think you can be hurting people feelings here as well as others!!
Big Brother used to be a bit of fun. Now it is down right depressing, these nasty foul mouth characters, are the sort of people I try to avoid. Why bring them into my home via TV. I will not be tuning in again. How sad to think that these sort of people are considered normal members of society. Where have we gone wrong in this world, when a man talks to and about a woman, in the manner that Aaron and Conner have to and about Denana and people defend it? They do not have any respect for themselve or other people. They do not understand the words respect and good manners. I hope Aaron's future modelling contracts reflect his dirty, immature, foul mouth. It is not clever and it is not funny.
atleast someone is on my wave length!
Hasn't anybody noticed that Victoria was the last in and first out, Chris was the second-to-last in and the second housemate out, then Benedict was the third-to-last in and the third housemate out? Also, Luke S's face was on the big screen on the launch night when Ashleigh was walking into the house, and there's something going on between them! And Luke A's eye twitches when he says he was born female, and also we don't get Big Brother live anymore... Is it only me that thinks something weird is going on?!
I think people should just be nice to each other and learn some respect, who wants to live in a house full of auguring and conflict! tbh i think conor will regret what he said, i don't think hes meant it in the way its been made out by everyone and he should say sorry to deana it was unacceptable.
The fact of the matter is there has been some nasty bullying going on in that house. And how can you condone this? How can Big Brother condone this on a broadcasted program? You cant! If the show doesn't want to get slated in the media then it has one simple choice - to evict Connor immediately.
all of you people think that your any better by saying thing that could hurt his feeling or may be seen as bullying? everyone has got there own views but do not tell me in a moment of anger you have said things that you didnt mean? because everyone does it. Like i said because he is on national tv he has been misunderstand because he made a mistake?
The argument that he said it out of anger does not stick. That is what abusers say when they use others as punchbags, 'it was done in a moment of anger'. I wonder what sort of person he really is. Such anger and agression what is going on in that head.
I think that the manner in which Conner and Aaron talk about Deana, is appalling. Calling her a 'dick' etc, their parents should be truly ashamed, as their behaviour reflects them. They are a disgrace to the British nation, no wonder we have such a bad reputation abroad. Filth.
Wow at people excusing Connor and co's bullying, how would you feel if they made those vile comments about your sister or daughter???
Someone with no time on thier hands
i think some of you are taking too seriously and have probably got too much time on your hand to be complaining about it. Connor admitted what he said was wrong and said it was just through anger. People dont no his emotion or how they are feeling inside the house, so dont be too quick to judge because none of you's know him personally.
Im clearly not condoning what he did as I said his behaviour was terrible, If anyone said that about anyone it would be out of order and disgraceful, so please, get worked up over someone else's comment. All I'm saying is that it was bad but not Ofcom bad.
Have just been checking the facebook page for bb. Most people agree that it was terrible behavior and what Connor said was wrong. But I can't believe there are some young girls on there excusing him. What kind of girls are growing up in society today, to excuse that sort of language and bullying? I find it bizarre!
I think taking it off the air is a bit much. If we didn't see this then we would not have known about it and thererfore couldn't comment on it. I do this channel 5 should reconsider not giving a sever punishment for his actions. I think also that it should be showen to the house to let them all see how we seen it. If they had any humanity they might think very carefully about how they acted. I'm not sure some of them can think very carefully about anything though.
the whole house bullied deana and no one really stood up for her everybody just let it pass, especially arron & conor and caroline, who are very , very malicious and should be removed, the whole house should be sat down together and shown on video all the incidents of bullying they preceded to do on deana, no one even comforted deana!!! im ashamed of humanity when i see things like this, it makes me very sad. Deana literally hasnt done ANYTHING wrong. Deana deserves to be comforted, everyone apoligise to her. and told how great and nice she is :) because she is :)
voice of reason
I doubt this episode will be released on demand 5 given the amount of complaints that channel 5 and ofcom would have received respectively. Channel 5 should be hit with a massive fine and severe punishment thereafter. Perhaps taking them off air for a week where their pockets would really be affected. The reason they chose to slect Connors comments on the episode because they were hoping for this reaction as they know that it will be all over the press pages and make national news therafter which in turn gets their viewing numbers up and consequently presents a Cash Cow. Anyone got a dejavu about a previous similar incident!!! Disgusted
Thank you so much Ebony. I really appreciate it. I got a feeling they won't put it up on 5 on Demand because of the comments he made? I'm not sure, I will watch it first and then write a proper reply to what I think :o
What a disgusting episode. Conor should be removed ASAP or at least put up with eviction with his fellow gang of cronies, for bullying behaviour and for breach of the rules (in the clip entitled "What are they on about" Ashleigh and co. clearly influenced nominations and their punishment was no alcohol until further notice) - SHAPE UP BB
Why can't I watch this episode? Did they remove it because of what Connor suposedly said? I missed this episode so I really want to watch it. hmm. What actually happened guys? Can someone tell me?
Well said Ebony, I think this series since Benedict left especially has turned into one of the nastiest bb houses I've ever seen. There is some serious bullying going on in there and nothing is being done about it. Absolutely outrageous Channel 5. I'm am totally disgusted. Connor should be taken out immediately. Or at the very least, the nomination should be reversed so that everyone else is nominated and Deana and Lydia immune for a week.
Completely disgusted by Connor, what a horrible thing to say and then for the other housemates to stand by and let it pass. Pathetic!
We are here to judge, thats why we are on the other side of the TV!! its not even about judging people its about having the common decency to realise whats right and whats wrong!!
Great comment Jeff - very well put, i totally agree
Yeah if Connor isn't evicted or some equally serious action isn't taken I'll stop watching the show. Its disgusting. Simple as that.
There was no racism in the house, however i agree totally that it should be treated in the sam respect as racism and quite honestly i am wondering why it is not?
That was a hard watch. I am shocked at the language Connor used but more so the hate and aggression in his tone. I am also shocked that nothing seems to have been done about it. In years past far minor offences have been punished. Connor should at least be up for nomination. I personally will be voting for Diana to stay even though I think Lydia is a big character this year, I think Deana could do with a little support in there.
Connor should have been shown the door for his disgusting rant on Deana. End of.
Amanda - great comment, absolutely terrible behaviour, Deena is not my favourite person in the house but under no circumstances should be made to feel bullied! shame on you channel 5
He didnt even say sorry. Will watch Bit on the Side tomorrow on catch up to see what or if anything was said!!
What a disgrace. Eviction should be canceled and Connors cretins put up. Get that play ground bully out!
I've now complained to Channel 5, Ofcom & also Schwarzkopf. This is absolutely unacceptable and vile. This completely undermines the work of so many charities that try to highlight women’s rights in situations of domestic abuse. Channel 5 letting housemate’s off with a mere warning is a complete slap in the face for all the people working hard to raise awareness of women’s rights in situations of domestic abuse.
I completely agree Tina, Channel 5 should really take some action.
Completely unacceptable and Connor should be ashamed of himself!!
Thanks for the link! I've sent a complaint.
Still in shock it was broadcast. I hope Connor gets kicked out of the house or at the very least gets a very, very severe warning!!
You can complain to their corporate sponsor here -- http://www.schwarzkopf-consumer.com/fileadmin/static/com/contact_form.php?recep=Consumer. Worked with the racism against Shilpa Shetty when Carphone Warehouse reacted with horror.
Thank you for the link, Jase, I am complaining now.
I've tried to complain directly to Channel 5 for tonights program but they try make it so hard to complain. Connor should not be in the house, the vile and disguisting language he used towards another person would not b tolerated in the 'outside' world so why should it be different on Channel 5. Poor decision by a poor television channel. This is the link to Ofcom https://stakeholders.ofcom.org.uk/tell-us/specific-programme-epg
Thanks Krista, yep call Ofcom people!!! This is totally out of line! I can't believe this is called entertainment when you witness someone behaving like that .And if the wrong people are up for nomination again this only adds to the fire. I'll be interested to see what they say on bit on the side.
Far too much bullying on this particular episode. 1) it just shouldn't be done, 2) I always loved this show because almost always the nice people win, so the bullies will lose in the long run anyway. But made for uncomfortable viewing. Conor starting to show his true colours, or rather editing starting to show them...
Mark I agree. That was low and nasty. And actually just because it was "real food" she was given means nothing. She thought it was beef and she doesn't eat beef so of course it was gonna make her gag. Yasmar, was u on here last year? I remember the name.....get the bully boy gang out!!
comes on around 12 30 am usually.. i posted a link but it was taken off
does anyone have the link???? for tthis ? :)
I think people should call Ofcom to make a complaint about Connor. Its terrible! Certainly if he does anything more out of line he should be thrown out of the house immediately. Absolutely disgraceful!
It's not about him being foul-mouthed, what Connor said was wholly unacceptable. Channel 5 - you NEED to have better enforcement of the rules. Think how sickened and threatened Deana would feel if someone told her what he said.
Disgusting !!! I can't believe BB only gave Connor a telling off !! That was vile and vicious - nobody deserves treatment like, especially in an enclosed enviroment. They'll need to do something about the clique, before they get out of hand...they make me sick..stupid people.
Link anybody plzzz??
A notice from those in charge to the request of when it will be OnDemand would be appreciated....and polite!
I really dislike that little clique and their ganging up on Deana. Ive just seen whos up for eviction and Im not happy cos I want the too kewl for skewl crew out!!
Connor is a pathetic excuse of a man and his comments tonight were vile! BB should have kicked him out!
aron and connor need to go. They make deana feel uncomfortable and then slate her for being uncomfortable. It's bordering bullying and letting it happen is only encouraging it - fix up channel 5.
ho ! am foul mouthed, but connor needs to go ...there aw a bunch o bullies - the wee gangs pathetic !!
where can i make a complaint about Connor his behavior is disgraceful!
I'm sorry but I'm reeeeaally going off Connor, I dont like the way him and Arron gang up on Deana, its nasty and verging on bullying!!!
how long is it going to take for this to come on here?
deana all da wai!!!:P i fink lydias such a cow.. shes been provoking deana...:L get LYDIA OUH!
ah luv lidia an beano !
how long does it take for an episode to come on demand?
i think arron and lauren are meant to be together
hurry up and upload it demand 5 :)
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